Pointers in English 2

Pointers in English 2

 This picture taking happen last september the CTS-C intramurals we are still happy on that day  because we are amazed the opening of intramurals and we celebrate also the birthday of Ms. Candice Gotianuy . 

 Im very lucky also that I have a classmates that are very soppurted and caring. They always make hapy when im in school . So thats why I lov them so much ,.

 Simplicity is beauty. That’s what people usually say about many things. But for me, simplicity is not enough when it comes about my dream house. My dream house would still be simple, but in another manner. It wouldn’t be simple that it will be made out of wood, but it would be simple in a way that it has simple designs, yet it would be still appealing in the eyes.

 My dream house would be situated in place that has a lake nearby. So that everyday will be refreshing by the breeze coming from those trees that would feel so good. I choose to have a lake nearby because it is better to go natural than artificial like making swimming pools that would make my dream house cost a lot. Also, I can go fishing on the lake if I feel like doing it. My dream house will not have a tall gate because it would be inappropriate for a house near a lake. On my backyard, there will be a half basketball court where I can play basketball whenever I want. Then there will also be a wide place in the backyard wherein it would be a picnic place for my family.

True Love: How Do You Know?

Years ago a psychologist by the name of Robert Sternberg came up with a pretty good explanation that is difficult to improve on. What Sternberg did was to break down true love into three parts. I will try to share them so that you can easily apply them to your situation in a simple way. These three parts will help you to determine if what you have in your relationship is true love!

Passion
This part includes physical and sexual attraction. It is like “Wow!”… You might hear angels and music…… . You initially cannot get over this person. The attraction is overwhelming. Pheromones abound. Electricity and chemistry are constantly zapping and bubbling in and around you. You feel an obsessive need to have your feelings reciprocated. For most persons, this is the first part of feeling attraction.

Intimacy
Intimacy leads to attachment. It creates closeness and connectedness. We call this process becoming bonded with another person. Intimacy grows first by spending much time with another person. Then it grows deeper by sharing with one another every aspect of our lives. Intimacy is built on trust and safety. If you cannot trust and feel safe with a person then intimacy disappears and will degenerate into distrust and suspicion.

Since intimacy takes patience to develop, many are not prepared for such task. It is work. It implies a lot of talking and disclosure. If a person has been hurt in previous relationships, then they will have great difficulty finding closeness due to previously existing walls of distrust. The tendency will be to project past hurts on the present relationship.

 Commitment
Commitment implies the ability to stay connected no matter what. A mature person is one who can work through misunderstandings and hurts. A key to staying together is believing the best of the other person, not prejudging them with bad motives. It is working positively to resolve issues. For a couple to stay together they must consistently break through the barriers of being hurt while assuming that the other person wants to resolve the issue also.
Commitment involves being conciliatory and pursuing the relationship no matter how you feel. That is why we have social contracts such as engagement and marriage. Sure, these can be broken, but it will make you think twice before breaking them, especially when you have a lot of “equity” invested into the relationship. Commitment is not for the lighthearted. Herein lies the real test. Will you be committed to that person even when they gain some pounds, lose their hair, get sick, change in their economic status, etc.? Commitment does not mean you have to agree with everything, just that you can respect their differences.

FRIENDSHIP

    Friendship is the one most precious gifts of life . A person who has a true friends in life is lucky enough because friendship makes life thrilling . Trucant live alone . Friends are needed for support and for sharing . We need to select are friend very carefully , Because many youngsters have become social nuisance mainly due to wrong company and bad friends . Lastly , lasting friendship is a blessing .Good friends are great pillars of life . It does not matter how often you meet your friends but how much you care and feel for another and good times. As well as in bad times . True friendship is a great friendship is a feeling of love , sharing , and caring & also they understand  and appreciates you as you are . Friendship is a good for us because man is asset of Life . :)